less popular in weddings is any bride saying that she promises to "love and
obey" her husband, and the husband promising to "care for" his bride.
This again smacks of the bride being property and subservient to her
husband. This isn't the way we're doing it. We'll be writing our
own vows and they'll mean a lot more than out-of-the-box recitals repeated
by robotic brides and grooms at the behest of ministers.